When you’re shopping for holiday gifts this month, set aside time to check out Wild Words: Rituals, Routines and Rhythms for Braving the Writer’s Path by Nicole Gulotta. It’s full of tips for overcoming obstacles and making the most of opportunities in your writing life.
Gulotta wrote the book while she was a first-time mother looking to continue writing while adjusting to her new responsibilities and time constraints. She realized that her life had seasons, and she started to identify them, accept them, even honor them. Her book is designed to help us look at our own life changes - whether it's a new job, a move or loss of a loved one - as an opportunity for new rituals and routines. She shows us how to identify our own patterns and helps us develop strategies to honor the rhythms of our lives.
Let’s dive into a few of her suggestions. Need more time to write? Gulotta recommends that you look at your life right now, both your weekday and weekend schedule. What open blocks of time do you have? When you get up, before you go to bed, at lunch, when the baby is napping, when you get home or stop work for the day? Pick one or more and use that time to start writing. But where can you write? Do you have an office or a desk? What about a local park or your car? Choose a location and start experimenting. Ask yourself, what’s working and what isn’t? Don’t be afraid to change if what you thought would work, doesn’t. What if you’ve established a writing routine and your life changes again? The beauty of Gulotta’s suggestions is that they can be used multiple times. So, go back and look at your life again, work through the questions, and make changes.
Now let’s look at the big picture. Gulotta recommends choosing a word of the year to help keep us on track and achieve our goals. Start by setting an intention and asking yourself: How do I want to feel? What do I need more of in my life? What do I need less of? Consider both your personal and your writing life when asking these questions. Several words may emerge so give yourself enough time to think about each word and the potential impact it might have on your life. Once you’ve chosen a word, commit to it. You’ll be amazed at how it can help keep you on track as well as identify blind spots in your thinking.
I chose the word uncomfortable as my word for 2020. No, I didn’t have a crystal ball; I was acknowledging and trying to work through the discomfort that I feel when I sit down to write. It ended up having special meaning in my personal life as well; my mother was admitted to hospice care earlier this year and the word was a reminder to cherish this time with her, despite my discomfort at the progression of her illness.
I’ve only touched on the surface of this book. I loved that it contained suggestions for each stage of a writer’s life: generating ideas, first drafts, revisions, finishing a project, publishing, book tours. If a particular section or idea resonates, refer to the References list in the back of the book which contains suggestions for further reading. The best part: you don’t have to read the book in order; it still works if you go right to the section whose title intrigues you.
- What about you? If you choose a word for your year ahead, please share with us in the comments! I just started thinking about it, so I could change my mind, but my top two words are focus and pivot, which might seem contradictory, but I have my reasons! When 2021 is underway, maybe I'll write a post about why I settled on one word or another. But first, we'd love to hear from you! ~Kristin Lenz
Coming up on the Mitten Blog:
Hugs and Hurrahs! We want to trumpet your good news! Please email your writing, illustrating, and publishing news to Sarah LoCascio by Dec. 15th. Hugs and Hurrahs will be our final post for 2020. The Mitten blog team will take time off for the holidays and return in the new year to unveil our new blog banner and introduce our new Featured Illustrator.
Dec. 15th is also the deadline to donate to the Books with Barbers Fundraiser. To see the book wish list and instructions for donating, go here: https://michigan.scbwi.org/2020/07/30/equity-and-inclusion-e-i-team/
SCBWI-MI is here to help you with your New Year’s Resolutions.
Resolution #1: Create a wonderful illustration.
Resolution #2: Create another one.
Resolution #3: And another.
Resolution #4: And one more.
Now you’re ready to enter one of the illustration mentorships.
Dow Phumiruk is the mentor for picture book illustrations.
Brittany (Bea) Jackson is the mentor for middle grade and young adult illustrations.
The winners receive a year-long mentorship (six exchanges of art and critiques) with Dow or Bea.
The submission window opens May 17, 2021.
Pretty much everything you’ll need to know can be found on the SCBWI-MI mentorship page of the website.
For questions, contact SCBWI-MI mentorship coordinator, Ann Finkelstein.
P.S. Stay tuned for interviews with Dow on April 30, 2021 and Bea on May 7, 2021.
Great post, Kris. Thank you for sharing your word and the reason behind it finding you. (You, too, Kristin. I'm intrigued!) My word for 2020 is Distraction (upper case intentional). It wasn't just normal distraction (noise, other commitments, etc.) but also big, scary distractions that poked into most of my moments. BUT I did learn what I need to do to keep Distractions to a dull roar and allow my creativity the space it deserves.
ReplyDeleteGreat post! Thank you for sharing your words for the year. My 2020 word is "present". For me, 2020 made me be present in order to navigate all the rapids presented to me. Remote school, canceled vacations and more meant I had to focus on being there. Turns out my word means gifts. 2020 had many unexpected presents, too. 2020 gave me the gift of time to learn new skills, work on my craft, and be with my loved ones.
ReplyDeleteMy word for 2020 was connection. A little ironic I suppose. Although I did end up striving more to make those personal connections in light of the pandemic and found creative ways to do it. I also realized just how important connecting with others is to me. My word for 2021 came to me early this year: embrace (including new ways of thinking and loved ones!)
ReplyDeleteAlso, this looks like a great book! Thanks for sharing.
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Great post! I don't have words for 2020 (haha!), but my word for 2021 is "balance." Not just balancing all my different responsibilities, but also feeling balanced and centered in the midst of the chaos!
ReplyDeleteMy word for 2020 has been "Release."
ReplyDeleteKris, I appreciate your bringing it to mind again. Perfect timing in my life right now in many ways. This is also a great reminder to me to plan for a 2021 word.
Kris! Love your review of this book! I bought Wild Words earlier this year at Kris's recommendation, and I'm really learning a lot and enjoying it. The word I chose for 2020 is "transformation." I started this transformative year with a new office and a commitment to get healthier! I didn't know (but God did) how much those two transformative things would mean when we were all together during quarantine and needing places to work; and being quarantined with one gifted bread maker and one gifted cook:) Having that word in the front of my mind during this crazy year helped me look more closely at the gifts quarantine brought rather than just its challenge; it helped me bend and change at times when I thought I might break. Thanks for the reminder of the power words can have in our lives!
ReplyDeleteOoooh--Love your word, Patti. Transformation. I think I'll link it to my word of choice for 2021: Intentionality (Inspired by Emmy Kastner;-> ). My word for 2020 is Discover. I had to discover new ways to experience the world from (mostly) my window and my walks outdoors. I had to discover new ways to connect to people. I'm so looking forward to 2021!
ReplyDeleteThank you for such a great book review, Kris. It’s now on my TBR list. If I had to choose a word for 2020, it would be acceptance. We’ve all had to accept a lot of things we wish we could change in the last year. I need to ponder what I will pick as my word for 2021.
ReplyDeleteI've chosen a word (or phrase) for the year for several years now, and the word I'm considering for 2021 is also focus!
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