An evil rooster lives on my road. His owners take free-range
to a whole new level as this cocky fellow roams in and out of yards, leading
his speckled lady-friends astray. My daily walks are like running the gauntlet,
as I keep a keen eye out for this neighborhood bully.
This summer, I found myself going from wary to downright
fearful, as attempts to pass my nemesis unscathed became more and more of a
challenge.
I nearly stopped walking altogether. I almost allowed my
fears to control me and take away one of my joys.
How often does this happen in our writing life? We stop
writing because we feel we aren't good enough. We stop submitting because we
fear rejection. We stop trying because we fear failure. We let the "evil
rooster" stop our journey.
Rather than end my daily walks, I've learned a few tricks to
keep that foul fowl at bay:
1. Walk with others.
The evil rooster is outnumbered and backs off. Your writing journey need not be
a lonely one. Writer friends, critique groups, SCBWI, and Mich-Kids are
available to you as you forge your path. It helps to have friends walking along
the same road who support and believe in you.
2. Take your dogs.
They are well-trained so the evil rooster heads in the other direction. As you
travel, you are learning and growing. You are training yourself to be the best
writer you can be. Feed your dogs well! Take classes. Read how-to books. Get
professional critiques. Go to conferences. With the pooches of pedagogy on your
leash, you will walk confidently past that dumb-cluck!
3. Carry a big stick!
I can't control my free-range foe and I can't control rejection. But I can control
my reaction. There was a time when rejection stopped me in my tracks. The
little voice in my head told me to stop!
Don't pass go! Give up! But if I had obeyed that evil rooster, I would've never
known the joy of having a career that I love. Your stick should be inked with
words like Determination, Talent, Hard work, Education, and Practice, Practice,
Practice. When you're armed with a big
stick that paltry poultry gets the message: Back
Off!
I still have days when that evil rooster appears. He jumps
out unexpectedly and stops me in my tracks. But then I remember, he's not the
boss of me! I hold my head up, stand tall, and crow, sending him scurrying into
the shrubbery.
After all, he's nothing but a big chicken.
Lisa Wheeler writes in
her head as she takes daily walks in rural Addison, MI. She's been fighting
that rooster for a few decades. Her newest books, Dino-Racing (Lerner) and The
Christmas Boot (Dial) are her 36th and 37th titles. Read more about Lisa and
her books at www.lisawheelerbooks.com
Don't miss out on the SCBWI-MI events happening around the state over the next few months, including Shop Talks, a free Scrivener Workshop, and the Fall Retreat in Harbor Springs, MI.
Congrats to Lindsay K. Moore, the winner of the Fall Retreat Logo Competition! See the logo below and learn more about Lindsay and her art career at her website.
Have a great weekend, and see you next Friday!
Kristin Lenz
Great post! We all need our people to help fend off the evil roosters in our lives.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice, clever post! Conquer your inner evil rooster :)
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